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<html> <head> <meta http-equiv='Content-Type' content='text/html; charset=utf-8'> <title> </title> </head> <div> <meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="Content-Type"> <title></title> <div> <div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>T&ocirc;i g&#7885i nh&#7919ng hi&#7879n t&#432&#7907ng tranh c&#432&#7899p bia, h&ocirc;i c&#7911a, c&#432&#7899p hoa, v&agrave; g&#7847n &#273&acirc;y nh&#7845t l&agrave; chen l&#7845n v&#432&#7907t r&agrave;o l&agrave; nh&#7919ng c&#417n &ldquo;l&#7879ch chu&#7849n t&#7853p th&#7875&rdquo;. N&oacute;i l&agrave; &ldquo;c&#417n&rdquo;, v&igrave; v&#7889n d&#297 n&#7871u ch&#7881 c&oacute; m&igrave;nh h&#7885 trong &#273i&#7873u ki&#7879n kh&aacute;c, th&igrave; c&oacute; l&#7869 t&#7915ng ng&#432&#7901i h&#7885 kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave;m v&#7853y&hellip;</strong></span></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;">&nbsp;</div> <p><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Nh&#432 trong v&#7909 c&#432&#7899p bia &#7903 &#272&#7891ng Nai, c&oacute; th&#7875 nhi&#7873u ng&#432&#7901i bi&#7871t l&agrave; sai nh&#432ng nh&igrave;n quanh ai c&#361ng l&#7845y bia n&ecirc;n &ldquo;t&#7863c l&#432&#7905i&rdquo;: Kh&ocirc;ng l&#7845y th&igrave; thi&#7879t. Trong vi&#7879c &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng tr&egrave;o r&agrave;o &#7903 C&ocirc;ng vi&ecirc;n n&#432&#7899c H&#7891 T&acirc;y, t&ocirc;i ngh&#297 &#273&#417n gi&#7843n l&agrave; m&#7885i ng&#432&#7901i ham vui, gi&#7919a kh&ocirc;ng kh&iacute; n&aacute;o nhi&#7879t ai c&#361ng tr&egrave;o r&agrave;o th&igrave; chuy&#7879n quy t&#7855c kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n quan tr&#7885ng. &#272&oacute; v&#7915a l&agrave; &#7843nh h&#432&#7903ng c&#7911a t&acirc;m l&yacute; &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng, v&#7915a do c&#7897ng &#273&#7891ng &#273&atilde; quen v&#7899i nh&#7919ng s&#7921 ph&aacute; l&#7879.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Theo t&ocirc;i, c&oacute; ba &#273i&#7873u ch&#7911 y&#7871u khi&#7871n m&#7885i ng&#432&#7901i d&#7877 b&#7883 cu&#7889n v&agrave;o c&aacute;i l&#7879ch chu&#7849n c&#7911a s&#7889 &#273&ocirc;ng:</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><em>Th&#7913 nh&#7845t</em> l&agrave; s&#7921 &#273&#7893 l&#7895i/ t&#7915 ch&#7889i tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879m &#273&#7841o &#273&#7913c: T&ocirc;i l&agrave;m do t&igrave;nh th&#7871 &eacute;p bu&#7897c, c&oacute; l&yacute; do ch&iacute;nh &#273&aacute;ng, kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881 m&igrave;nh t&ocirc;i m&agrave; ai c&#361ng l&agrave;m... Kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843i ch&#7883u tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879m l&agrave; m&#7897t l&yacute; do r&#7845t h&#7845p d&#7851n &#273&#7875 l&agrave;m nh&#7919ng &#273i&#7873u m&agrave; b&igrave;nh th&#432&#7901ng m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng d&aacute;m l&agrave;m.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><em>Th&#7913 hai</em> l&agrave; s&#7921 t&#7853p nhi&#7877m/x&atilde; h&#7897i h&oacute;a: Quy chu&#7849n &#273&#7841o &#273&#7913c l&agrave; th&#7913 &#273&#432&#7907c ti&#7871p nh&#7853n t&#7915 x&atilde; h&#7897i, &#273&#7875 gi&uacute;p con ng&#432&#7901i h&ograve;a nh&#7853p. Ngh&#297a l&agrave;, s&#7889 &#273&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &aacute;p l&#7921c m&#7841nh &#273&#7871n chu&#7849n m&#7921c c&aacute; nh&acirc;n &ndash; khi b&#7841n l&agrave;m theo s&#7889 &#273&ocirc;ng th&igrave; b&#7841n &#273&uacute;ng.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><em>Th&#7913 ba</em> l&agrave; b&#7843n ch&#7845t con ng&#432&#7901i v&agrave; ki&#7875m so&aacute;t x&atilde; h&#7897i. Khi thi&#7871u &#273i s&#7921 ki&#7875m so&aacute;t b&#7857ng lu&#7853t ph&aacute;p, quy ch&#7871, b&#7897 ph&#7853n an ninh hay &#273&#417n gi&#7843n l&agrave; m&#7897t c&aacute;i nh&igrave;n t&#7849y chay c&#7911a c&#7897ng &#273&#7891ng tr&#432&#7899c h&agrave;nh &#273&#7897ng x&#7845u&hellip; th&igrave; b&#7843n n&#259ng x&#7845u b&#7897c ph&aacute;t l&agrave; &#273&#432&#417ng nhi&ecirc;n.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong> Th&oacute;i quen t&#7863c l&#432&#7905i &ldquo;&#273&#7841o &#273&#7913c l&agrave; l&yacute; thuy&#7871t th&ocirc;i m&agrave;&rdquo;</strong></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">T&ocirc;i th&#7845y ai c&#361ng r&#7845t d&#7877 &#273&aacute;nh m&#7845t m&igrave;nh trong t&acirc;m l&yacute; &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng. Nh&#432ng n&#7871u hi&#7875u &#273&#432&#7907c &#273i&#7873u &#273&oacute;, bi&#7871t r&#7857ng &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843i l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361ng &#273&uacute;ng th&igrave; m&#7895i ng&#432&#7901i s&#7869 t&#7881nh t&aacute;o h&#417n.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">C&oacute; l&#7869 c&aacute;i ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847n l&agrave; s&#7921 t&#7881nh t&aacute;o &#273&#7875 nh&#7853n ra c&oacute; c&aacute;i g&igrave; &#273&oacute; &ldquo;sai sai&rdquo; v&agrave; ni&#7873m tin v&agrave;o quy chu&#7849n c&#7911a b&#7843n th&acirc;n &#273&#7875 t&#7915 ch&#7889i nh&#7919ng h&agrave;nh &#273&#7897ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273&uacute;ng v&#7899i chu&#7849n c&#7911a m&igrave;nh.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">N&oacute;i ri&ecirc;ng v&#7873 gi&#7899i tr&#7867, gi&aacute;o d&#7909c &#273&#7841o &#273&#7913c h&#7859n c&#361ng t&aacute;c &#273&#7897ng m&#7841nh &#273&#7871n s&#7921 v&#7919ng v&agrave;ng c&#7911a m&#7895i ng&#432&#7901i trong &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng. </span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Th&#7871 nh&#432ng, t&ocirc;i th&#7845y c&aacute;c m&ocirc;n h&#7885c nh&#432 &#273&#7841o &#273&#7913c, gi&aacute;o d&#7909c c&ocirc;ng d&acirc;n th&#432&#7901ng qu&aacute; l&yacute; thuy&#7871t, b&#7903i v&igrave; m&ocirc;n h&#7885c ch&#7881 d&#7841y ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i l&yacute; thuy&#7871t v&agrave; c&aacute;ch gi&#7843i t&igrave;nh hu&#7889ng d&#7921a tr&ecirc;n s&aacute;ch v&#7903, ch&#7913 kh&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c &#273&#7897ng &#273&#7871n nh&#7853n th&#7913c, th&aacute;i &#273&#7897, &#273&#7875 h&#7885c sinh th&#7921c s&#7921 &ldquo;ng&#7845m&rdquo; nh&#7919ng chu&#7849n m&#7921c.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">V&iacute; d&#7909 h&#7885c v&#7873 Trung th&#7921c &#7903 tr&#432&#7901ng THPT, ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i &#273&#432&#7907c h&#7885c thu&#7897c kh&aacute;i ni&#7879m Trung th&#7921c, bi&#7875u hi&#7879n c&#7911a Trung th&#7921c, v&agrave; l&agrave;m nh&#7919ng b&agrave;i t&#7853p sao cho &#273&uacute;ng gi&aacute;o &aacute;n. V&ocirc; t&igrave;nh, &#273i&#7873u &#273&oacute; c&agrave;ng khi&#7871n c&aacute;c chu&#7849n m&#7921c &#273&#7841o &#273&#7913c tr&#7903 th&agrave;nh phi th&#7921c t&#7871. &#272&#7875 &#273&#7871n khi b&#259n kho&#259n n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m theo chu&#7849n &#273&#7841o &#273&#7913c hay l&agrave;m theo c&aacute;i ng&#432&#7901i kh&aacute;c &#273ang l&agrave;m, th&igrave; m&igrave;nh ch&#7863c l&#432&#7905i: &ldquo;&#272&#7841o &#273&#7913c l&agrave; l&yacute; thuy&#7871t th&ocirc;i m&agrave;&rdquo;.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>&#272&#7915ng &#273&#7875 b&#7883 &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng d&#7851n d&#7855t</strong></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Tr&#7903 l&#7841i c&acirc;u chuy&#7879n v&#7873 C&ocirc;ng vi&ecirc;n n&#432&#7899c, r&#7889t c&#7909c kh&ocirc;ng ai b&#7883 th&#432&#417ng v&igrave; tr&egrave;o h&agrave;ng r&agrave;o v&agrave; m&#7885i ng&#432&#7901i c&#7843m th&#7845y vui v&#7867, &#273&uacute;ng l&agrave; c&oacute; th&#7875 th&#7903 ph&agrave;o. Th&#7871 nh&#432ng n&oacute;i &#273i n&oacute;i l&#7841i v&#7851n l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n. </span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">&#272&#7875 t&#7921 b&#7843o v&#7879 m&igrave;nh ho&#7863c t&#7921 gi&uacute;p m&igrave;nh gi&#7843m thi&#7875u th&#7845p nh&#7845t h&#7853u qu&#7843 c&#7911a c&aacute;c h&agrave;nh vi do v&ocirc; th&#7913c &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng, th&igrave; &#273&#7915ng &#273&#7875 &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng d&#7851n d&#7855t. D&ugrave; trong t&igrave;nh hu&#7889ng n&agrave;o th&igrave; m&igrave;nh v&#7851n lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; l&#7921a ch&#7885n, v&agrave; ph&#7843i ch&#7883u ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879m v&#7873 l&#7921a ch&#7885n &#273&oacute;. L&agrave;m th&#7871 n&agrave;o &#273&#7875 sau c&#417n l&#7879ch chu&#7849n t&#7853p th&#7875 v&#7851n th&#7845y m&igrave;nh &ldquo;chu&#7849n&rdquo; l&agrave; &#273&#432&#7907c.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">&ldquo;V&igrave; m&igrave;nh &#273&ocirc;ng &ndash; n&ecirc;n m&igrave;nh &#273&uacute;ng&rdquo; &ndash; suy ngh&#297 &#7845y c&oacute; th&#7875 &#273&#7849y m&#7895i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n trong t&#7853p th&#7875 &#273&#7871n nh&#7919ng h&agrave;nh &#273&#7897ng nguy hi&#7875m v&#432&#7907t ra ngo&agrave;i chu&#7849n m&#7921c m&agrave; m&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875 &#273&aacute;nh gi&aacute; &#273&uacute;ng &ndash; sai. V&igrave; v&#7853y theo t&ocirc;i, ch&#7881 c&oacute; c&aacute;ch m&#7895i ng&#432&#7901i &#273&#7863t c&aacute;i nh&igrave;n ra ngo&agrave;i &#273&aacute;m &#273&ocirc;ng &#273&#7875 &#273&aacute;nh gi&aacute; tr&#432&#7899c khi quy&#7871t &#273&#7883nh h&ograve;a v&agrave;o n&oacute;.</span></span></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n &#273&aacute;nh gi&aacute; con ng&#432&#7901i m&agrave; ch&#7881 n&ecirc;n &#273&aacute;nh gi&aacute; h&agrave;nh &#273&#7897ng. H&agrave;nh &#273&#7897ng c&oacute; l&uacute;c sai kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ngh&#297a l&agrave; con ng&#432&#7901i x&#7845u. H&agrave;nh &#273&#7897ng &#273&#7865p m&#7897t kho&#7843nh kh&#7855c kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ngh&#297a con ng&#432&#7901i kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901 l&agrave;m sai. </span></span></p> <ul> <div style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Nguy&#7877n L&#432&#417ng Di&#7879u An</strong><br /> </span></span></div> <div style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;"><em>(Sinh vi&ecirc;n Khoa X&atilde; h&#7897i h&#7885c, Tr&#432&#7901ng &#272H Khoa h&#7885c X&atilde; h&#7897i v&agrave; Nh&acirc;n v&#259n, &#272HQG H&agrave; N&#7897i</em>)</span></span></div> <div style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: small;">Ngu&#7891n: Vietnam Net (http://vietnamnet.vn)<br /> </span></span></div> </ul> </div> </meta> </div> </html>

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